“This is the source of the trouble. Persons tend to think and feel exclusively in one mode or the other and in doing so tend to misunderstand and underestimate what the other mode is all about. But no one is willing to give up the truth as he sees it, and as far as I know, no one now living has any real reconciliation of these truths or modes. There is no point at which these visions of reality are unified.”
The point is – it does not matter what you say or do, people will always see you how they want to see you.
The preconceived ideas that you create based simply on yourself and your past.
With a look, you assume.
You find your previous knowledge of a person who looked like that, and then you apply it to this new one with zero thought about how you’re only just meeting them.
How you’re only seeing one dimension of them.
How you’ve dismissed their previous years.
How you’ve just assumed.
You’ve assumed – by the way they look and act – that they must be like the people who you knew before.
So you place them into a category, one which fits them because of your prior thoughts and judgements. You give them a label, one that will most likely stay.
What a waste.
We often forget that others do not think the way that we do.